The Secret Of Having A Happy Marriage!

Written by Jane van Zundert

Hi, I am Jane, I am married and a mother of four. My mission in life is to inspire and motivate you, on how you can break free from fear, shame, and resentment and start creating a balanced life, so that you can begin to enjoy your total freedom and never get stuck again in life.

September 11, 2020

Marriage is a union that has its ups and downs. When you think about the wedding bells, the wedding dress, the dance, refreshments, family members coming to celebrate with you, even friends, and co-workers you will resonate with happy moments and memories, but when everyone is gone, you will be the one, to live together with your spouse and that is when the real marriage begins.

To be able to have a happy and healthy family, there are lessons to be learned to enable you to enjoy every moment of your married life. Below are some secrets to a happy marriage.

1. Arguments

Every marriage has moments of arguments, two people from a different background came together, maybe after a very short courtship or long courtship, that doesn’t mean that they have known themselves too much to avoid arguments. The secret is when arguments arise, learn to talk it out and agree on a definite solution.

2. Learn To Lean On Each Other

When you were dating, there might be a time when you cry on each other’s shoulders, that should continue after marriage, sharing your pains and happiness matters a lot in marriage. Never take it upon yourself to bear the pain alone, because that will only yield up frustration and anger. Be open to each other that is your the pains and burdens will be shared.

3. Be Happy

Laughing is a good secret of a happy marriage. No matter what the case may be, learn to laugh with each other, there is nothing like too much of it, rather too much will keep your marriage alive and healthy. Make jokes, watch comedy films together, and enjoy exercising, cooking together, these are the moments where laughter normally arises.

4. Be Kind To Each Other

To be kind is always from the heart, it can never be faked. When an act of kindness goes round in your marriage, there is absolutely no way the devil will come between you and your spouse. Learn to give each other gifts and a helping hand. Help your spouse with washing and ironing the clothes, never allow your job to take away your attention, thereby leaving your wife or husband alone in the house to take care of the house.

5. Go Out Together

Just like when you were dating, create time for each other. Go out together on a fresh date. Go out to eat, to the movies if you are a movie person, walk-in beach, and even go on a long ride together. That will create another atmosphere different from your home and a conducive place to get to fall in love again.

5. Stay Away From Negative People

Negative people will bring sadness to your home, learn to hang around positive people, those that know what marriage is all about and respect it. When you hang around negative people it will lead to jealousy, and they might never understand that you are now married that the things you used to do definitely will change.

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Remember l am your sister in Christ.

Love you

Remain blessed.

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