Learn To Adjust Your Attitude!

Written by Jane van Zundert

Hi, I am Jane, I am married and a mother of four. My mission in life is to inspire and motivate you, on how you can break free from fear, shame, and resentment and start creating a balanced life, so that you can begin to enjoy your total freedom and never get stuck again in life.

February 15, 2021

Take a look at the world today, you will observe that people who have a positive attitude to life enjoy life more and are genuinely happier and even more successful than those who view the world through a negative lens. Our attitude is the driving force that either pushes us to do great things or pull us down to failure.


Our attitude starts in our early stage of life and changes consistently as we grow old. This is as a result of interaction and experiences of life. People we come across in life and had interactions with can either affect us positively and negatively and this can have an impact on your attitude.


Are you molded with the attitude and experiences of life and have they left you with a poor attitude? No worries below are some tips that helped me out of poor attitude towards life.


5 Ways To Change Your Attitude


1.Know What You Need To Change In Your Life
Taking a bold step towards understanding what needs to change in your attitude will help you to set goals in life. Setting goals is a key to success and when it comes to the change of attitude you need to take time to deeply evaluate yourself. Know what you want and how you want to go about it. Observe any signs of fear and traits work towards changing them.


2.Have a Model
No one can serve on his own without anyone to look to for inspiration. Whatever you are trying to achieve in life can be achieved, but have a role model or a mentor. But know that life is too short to waste. So trying to achieve all by yourself might lead you to many years of waste.

So when you find your vision and passion in life find a role model or a mentor to learn from them, it might be a person, books, YouTuber, etc. Internalize their knowledge but never make the mistake of remaining in their shadows. Because everyone’s goal is to surpass your mentors and model in brilliance.


3.Positive Attitude Towards Life Will Affect Your Life Positively
As yourself will changing my attitude bring the change I want to see in my life? Because to be able to go through life with all the problems and circumstances that will arise, we should be able to figure out the exact attitude we are holding onto. Work on your mindset and invest in personal development knowledge.


4.Believe That You Are In Position To Change Your Life

Most of the time we are our very own problems. We are sometimes our greatest obstacles that stand between us and our achievements. We tell ourselves how we can never succeed in what we do, or allow people to direct us out of our passion.

If you don’t believe in yourself and your passion it will not work out and no one else’s will believe in you. This might even lead to not even starting or seeing failure before you start. I used to have the wrong attitude to life, and because of that I negatively saw everything, but I have managed to change for the better with these tips. If I can do it you can too.


5.Hang Around The Right Company
Evil communication corrupts good manners so the bad company will surly corrupt good attitude and character. No one succeeds in life by hanging around negative people or any negative trials of life. What you need is the right company of people. Those that can help you grow and add value to your life. People you can learn from.

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Remember I am your sister in Christ.

Love you

Remain blessed.

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