How To Identify People Who Try To Bring You down


Written by Jane van Zundert

Hi, I am Jane, I am married and a mother of four. My mission in life is to inspire and motivate you, on how you can break free from fear, shame, and resentment and start creating a balanced life, so that you can begin to enjoy your total freedom and never get stuck again in life.

February 27, 2020

Are you feeling bad? Do you have your own voice? Or have you sold your voice out to others because what they said and what they want you to do? Never you give people a chance to tear you down with their negative talks of influence.
You will become whatever you want to be. But allowing negative people into your life can ruin everything. stand up today and begin to claim your voice and confidence back.

No one can ever have the right to tear you down negatively unless you give them the chance. Defined yourself as to how you want people to define you. If you give a negative definition of your self, never be angry when they define you negatively.

Tips to discover people who tear you down

1. They know it all

Such people are always right. You can never tell them anything, they assume you can never say anything right. They make suggestions and all they want is for you to follow. Run from such people, they are dreams killer.

2. They are jealous

They will always have negative comments on anything you do or want to do. Such people will never want you to overcome or overtake them in anything. Tell such people, for example, you are starting a new business. As long as they are jealousy, they will give you every reason why you are not capable to start that business.

3. They make sure they drive away all the good people around you

They make sure they drive away all the good people around you. This is common in an abusive marriage or relationship[. When your husband or partner becomes suspicious of all you do and all your friends. when he wants you all to himself without anyone coming to see your visit you. that is a red flag.


Check your circle today, check out for the above signs. If you notice any of the above signs in people around you. Then it is time for you to reconstruct your life and think of how you can get involved with people that can influence you positively.

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