Satan is out to destroy. He has one mission statement, in the book of John 10:10 ”A thief is only there to steal and kill and destroy”. When you give the devil a little chance to come into your life and marriage, he will destroy it. He does that, by creeping into it, by just a little mistake and begins to magnify it.
Never give the devil a chance, otherwise, his mission is to kill, destroy, and to steal. If
not chased out immediately, he will create a stronghold.
One thing is certain, the devil can never come into your home uninvited, he only comes when the edge is broken, and he will begin to bite, by manipulating your mind and thoughts.
If you have a big three-bedroom house, and you sold one room out to someone else. The person in question has every right to ownership. He will use everything in the house just like you. When he decides to bring people into the house through the same door as you, and begin to party in his room. You will not have the right to shut him up. Why? Because he has as much legal right as you. He bought the room and is allowed to do whatever he wants with his room.
That is the case of the devil, he doesn’t come uninvited unless he is called he stays away. In the book of Ephesians 4:27-30. The verses made us understand, that, If you need to break out from satanic assignment, there are certain rules and lifestyle you need to follow.
1. Repent
We all are sinners. If you must break the satanic assignment in your marriage, you need to repent from all your old characters. When you know that certain things provoke your husband thereby resulting in problems, learn to avoid them. Ask for a new heart in that marriage, learn new ways to beat the devil in his game. Hold on to the positive things of life. Let there be communication between you and your husband.
2. Stay Away From Dirty Speech
When all that comes out of your mouth is dirty and rude, it will result in trouble in your home and life. The power of the tongue, if not used wisely is going to cause some serious issues in your life and marriage. Certain words are not required to come out of your mouth as a believer and a wife. Learn to speak positive words, words of encouragement, and let your word be inspirational.
3. Avoid Negative people
Lots of homes have been broken today because some people allow a negative influence in their homes. They share their marriage issues with their friends and sometimes the advice they get can be negative, it will become a seed that will begin to germinate before they realized it, it has brought trouble to their home and marriage. Stay away from such gathering go into the presence of God with all your issues and he will answer you.
4. The Word Of God
Let your marriage be based on the word of God. Learn to have a home Bible study with your family. Pray together. The family that prays together stays together. Sharing the word of God will enable your marriage to be peaceful. When you study the word of God you get a refresh spirit and mind from it. There might be confronting issues, that might seem so scary, but when you know how to use the word of God in that situation, you will be peaceful.
5. Take Good Care Of Yourself
Some women, when they are praying for a husband, they will do anything to look good. The moment they get married, making their hair become the thing of the past. They will abandon their dressing, before the marriage such a woman normally will cook some delicious meal for the man, but after marriage, she becomes too busy that the man is the one coming home to cook.
Such marriage will be on the verge of destruction. The devil will come in and begin to manipulate the man. Some men will turn out to be eating outside and before you know it, there will be a woman outside.
Women learn to dress well and please maintain your hair. To avoid your husbands getting all the attention outside your home. Surprise him with a delicious meal, tell him you love him. Never allow him to be the only one saying I love you. It takes two to tangle.
In Conclusion…
Be careful of how you handle your marriage. Keep satanic assignment far from your home, by inviting Jesus into your marriage and your life. Don’t be quick to jump into conclusion, take time to invest in meditation. Take care of your home, stay away from negative people. What happens in your marriage is between you and your husband and God. Allow the Holy Spirit to direct you all the way.
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