Life is one mental issue, so to move on from a cheating husband, you need to know who you are and what you want.
So to be able to move away from him, you need to detach yourself from him.
So the question you need to ask yourself when you find out the truth about a cheating husband is, why am l attached to this person? How did I feel when I found out about the cheating? What space in me do I think he is filling?
Am I with this person because he validates and makes me feel loved? Am I with this person because of what he can provide for me? Or am I scared to face the reality of life?
When carefully observed, you will find out that your feelings are all based on the fact that you do not love yourself enough. Because if you have self-love, you will never depend on others to make you happy and fulfilled. You will never give the place and position of God to anybody in your life.
It is sometimes scary to know how this works. But understand that sometimes people fall in love with us just as we present ourselves to them.
When you struggle with self-love, it will make you feel broken when others disappoint you.
So, when your spouse cheats on you, figure out why it happened. There might have been some red flags you ignored, and maybe because you are scared to be alone, you ignore all the warnings. You might also discover why you always attract such people, it might be a result of your failing to heal when you first experienced cheating in a relationship. Nothing exists outside of you, so know that every experience you encounter in a relationship is teaching you about how you feel.
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