Why It Is Important To Stop The Why Mind-Set!

Written by Jane van Zundert

Hi, I am Jane, I am married and a mother of four. My mission in life is to inspire and motivate you, on how you can break free from fear, shame, and resentment and start creating a balanced life, so that you can begin to enjoy your total freedom and never get stuck again in life.

May 27, 2021

Many of us are living a life of why mindset. ”Why me”? ”Why did this happen to me”? ”Why are things not working out the way I planned it”?


This will always happen, plans will fail, the business will crumble, marriages will break, there will always be a betrayer and there will be a struggle financially.


But instead of living in the whys and reciting the same scenario over and over again, what you need to do is accept that whatever happened to you in life happened for you and not to you.
Do you know that God will always allow certain things to happen just to save us from destruction?

Maybe that business is not what God wants for you, and God will take it away just to save you. What about that marriage or relationship you are trying to fix, when you know the gravity of the abuse both physically and emotionally.


The greatest lesson I have learned from my experiences is accepting that God redirecting my steps is all for my protection and happiness. So I embrace every lesson that comes with life situations.


If you must live a happy life, learn to embrace every session of life, those circumstances that seem like roadblocks are there to save you from what your physical eyes cannot see.


All the whys are meant to bring you to that perfect end God planned for you. A beautiful place that is better than anything you could ever imagine.
What is the greatest lesson you have ever learned from a life situation? Please share your comment below.


Please don’t forget to share this post with your friends and family.


Remember I’m your sister in Christ.


Love you


Remain to bless.

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