Ways To Identify Selfish People In Your Life!

Written by Jane van Zundert

Hi, I am Jane, I am married and a mother of four. My mission in life is to inspire and motivate you, on how you can break free from fear, shame, and resentment and start creating a balanced life, so that you can begin to enjoy your total freedom and never get stuck again in life.

May 05, 2021

The topic sounds ironic but it’s the truth. Selfish people have one logo and that is me, me, me. They only care about their selfish interest and they are ready to go for what they want not minding who they hurt on their way. Selfish people use others to climb to their destination and when they are not able to succeed, they become wild and violent. 

There are 2 things that classify selfish people. Number 1 is that they only care about their interests, number 2 is they always want to collect but are never ready to share what they have.

Selfish people can be very hard to identify, especially when they are close to you. These might be among your loved ones and sometimes among your colleagues and bosses and that friend is not ruled out. These are people closer to you but are very talented in hiding their true selves. 

Here Are Ways To Identify Selfish People In Your Life!

  • Selfish People Are Manipulative

When a selfish person needs your help, they are ready to humble themselves to get what they want. They do everything to disguise themselves. They come to you with sweet words and when they get what they want you are no longer their priority.

  • They Join Others To Scam You

Selfish people are good in the game they play. They are willing to join others to scam you. They are never bothered if the outcome will be deadly.

  • Selfish People Are Self-centered

When you have selfish people in your life, and you hang around them for a long time, they will drag you backward in life with their selfishness. This set of people are not concerned about you but it’s all about them. When they come to you for help, they are not concerned if you can meet their needs at that particular time. All they need is for you to give them what they want. They are never bothered to know if it will be convenient for you.

  • Selfish people Never Share With Others

Their major concern is to have everything to themselves. They can be very pretending, and that makes it more difficult to spot them. When you strike a deal with a selfish person, they will rather choose to keep all the profit to themselves. They develop a strange character and back it up with so many excuses with why they cannot share with you.

  • Their Goals matters

Selfish people always put their goals ahead of everyone else’s. It’s all about them and never about you. They always violate boundaries. Until they have everything they want they are never ready to help others.

I hope you find some insight about selfish people and learn how to identify them in your life. Please feel free to share this post with your friends and loved ones.

Remember I’m your sister in Christ.

Love you.

Remain blessed.

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