Getting married is an exciting thing that any woman wants to experience in her lifetime. But marriage can also become boring after a long time of been married to that dream man. Has your marriage become boring? Here are five ways to spice up your marriage again.
- Practice Her Language
We all know that women like words. Not just words but words that come from honest lips. If your marriage is no longer in harmony just like the day you got married to that dream wife. There is need to do some urgent thinking. What words did you use to get her? There must be a language you alone know that will make your wife happy. Why did you stop using such words now? Marriage is a lifetime school and only those that know the language of their wives can survive the hack that comes with been married for a long time.
- Date Her Again
Being married and having kids is not the only reason women get married. Learning to date your wife again means that irrespective of her having children for you, you must create time for her. Ask her out again. It must not be expensive. You can date your wife again by asking her for a cup of coffee or tea. Make it part of your marriage to at least take her out once a month. You both need time alone to remind each other how you met and the sweet memories that you share. Never make the mistake of using your kids as an excuse why you cannot date her again.
- Learn To Appreciate Her
Never take a woman for granted by assuming that she is fine. And never assume that she already knows how much you appreciate her. Rather demonstrate your love and back it up with action.
Send her messages while at work. Tell her more often how much you love and how much you appreciate her for being the mother to your children. If you both don’t have kids, it was never a reason to stop loving rather pray together for God’s visitation on your home. You can also surprise her with a mid-day lunch. Shower to together once a while if not every day. Learn to put on a romantic candle for her. These are spices for your marriage.
- Spend Uninterruptible Time With Her
When last did you spend time with your wife without been interrupted by your phone? Learning to spend uninterruptable time with your wife will determine how long and romantic your marriage will be. Never use the children, family, sport, or even your work as an excuse not to spend quality time with your wife
- Acknowledge Her Beauty
Tell your wife how beautiful she looks after having those kids. Never tell a woman to her face how fat or ugly she has become after having your baby. There is every possibility for the body of a woman to change after having children. Rather come together as husband and wife to look for a solution if she no longer has that body you married her with. But one thing must be considered. A woman is a wife, mother, counselor, washerwoman, and dry cleaner. She is a cook, doctor, gardener, adviser, teacher, and many more. It means you must learn to set your marriage on the foundation of Christ. Love your wife just as Christ loves the church and continue to cherish her just as Christ cherises us.
“Without a woman, there will not be a man. So Men should learn to appreciate them“
Jane van Zundert
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