Sometimes, we feel that everything we do goes wrong and, we wonder why. These might be setbacks in our business, health, finance, relationship, or even marriage. Some people might be trying to nurse a broken heart. I want to encourage you that it’s better to connect to gratitude in that season and allow it to transform whatever you are passing through into positive energy or attitude.
As humans, we tend to see the sadness in pain and fail to acknowledge the fact that God can turn impossibilities into possibilities and that he can help us in dealing with them.
Here are eight things to remember the next time you find yourself getting worried and feeling down just because you think everything is going wrong with your life.
8 Things To Remember When Everything Goes Wrong
1.There Is a Season For Everything
In Ecclesiastes 3: 1, There is a time for everything and a season for every activity under the heavens.
Nothing is permanent in this world apart from death. The rain comes and goes. The sunset gives way to the moon at night. When morning comes, it will also give way to the night to perform its task. Never make the mistake of believing that pain will last forever because there is always healing that follows every hurt. Know that every passing moment and every life event is a new opportunity to teach you something and mold you into the best person you are born to be. Sometimes painful situations are there to make a change in your life.
When you allow the universe give you what you need, you will find out that it should not stop you from being happy just because you’re experiencing some challenges.
2.There Is Gold In That Pain
Pain can be very challenging and unpleasant, but you must also know that pain comes with a purpose. So, always be attentive and observe what that pain is trying to teach you. In some cases, it’s a sign that you need to move forward, or God might be pushing you out of that messy relationship or away from that toxic environment. Pain is not a sign of failure as most people think. Most of the successful people you see and hear of today have been through hardship, pains, and sorrow. The point is, learn to grab the gold in that pain and move forward.
So, you see that pain can hurt you, but it can also mold and rebuild you by finding personal growth in it and using the lessons to inspire others.
3. Worry Changes Nothing
Pain is part of life, and being worried over them to the extent of disrupting your life purpose is not good. Learning to turn away from complaining about your problems will help you see through them and move on. When you become grateful for the problems you don’t have, it will influence your mood and attitude toward anyone that might have hurt you. Be grateful for the lessons that come with that pain. Go out of the pain and use that painful experience to enlighten others.
4. Be Happy For The Scars
Those scars can become your pride. Some life events can leave behind scars, that can become your inner strength. Unless a scar heals, the wound is never closed. Never allow the devil to use those scars to infuse fear into you and paralyze you. Scars are there to prove that you can handle anything life throws at you.
5.Remember Struggles Move You Forward
Learning to develop patience will enable you to maintain a positive attitude in pain. You will find yourself patiently working hard to achieve your dreams. To achieve, your dream there is also need to step out of your comfort zone. Life is full of challenges and, that sometimes includes failure in things we do, but when fully viewed it will shock you that in that pain, there is a road leading you out of distractions and into your purpose in life.
6. Don’t Take The Blame Of Others
Dethrone negativity with positivity. Never take the blame of others. Know that you are not responsible for other people’s happiness. Hold onto your ideas and what God has called you to do, and refused to be changed by bitter, selfish people, full of pride and ego, people who are full of jealousy. Instead of helping you to grow in the areas God has called you, they will want to drag you into the complexities of their life. Know that you can never make everyone happy, so don’t waste your time trying to do it. We all get to live life once so, spend it around positive people, people who treat you right and want to see your progress.
7.God Plan Will Prevail
When everything is going wrong, trusting the universe to bring God’s promises is all we need. Don’t try to force things to happen but believe in God and watch life unfold. Stop doubting every step you take instead enjoy the flow. No matter how long it takes, your blessings will surely unfold themselves.
When you find yourself getting worried about life circumstances, don’t be afraid. Just remember that you are the child of God, and He will bring you to that perfect end. Know that we all are clay in the potter’s hands so situations will come that will mold us and purify us. This way we will become gold so that God’s anointing in us will flow to others through our live testimonies.
I encourage you to find love, to start all over again because you are fearfully and wonderfully made by God. Go in the light of God and allow the Holy Spirit to lead you and you will surely arrive at that place of joy and happiness.
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