Something to Take into Consideration as a Woman of Destiny

Written by Jane van Zundert

Hi, I am Jane, I am married and a mother of four. My mission in life is to inspire and motivate you, on how you can break free from fear, shame, and resentment and start creating a balanced life, so that you can begin to enjoy your total freedom and never get stuck again in life.

April 20, 2023

A woman of destiny can change anything in her hands into an abundance, but she must know herself and what she carries inside of her. When a woman with a great destiny walks into a man’s life, she ignites everything in that man.

But when a man doesn’t know where he is heading, it will slow down this woman and possibly close her gateway to fulfilling her destiny.
A woman of destiny carries a lot of disguised potentials and blessings that need to be discovered and help cultivated by a potential man.


So, if you are choosing a husband, you should desire a man that has a clear vision of what he wants, how to achieve them, and where he wants to be in the future because It’s not just for himself but for his wife and children if it is involved.
A man that wants to be your husband should be able to bring out the best in you, not dim the light in you.

He should be able to cultivate that purpose inside of you as well. An unclear man can destroy your life purpose. He might become intimated by who you are and who you’re becoming. So I urge every woman to think deeply about this.


As a woman, you need a clear vision, purpose, and an understanding of who you are. You want to have a definition of where you both are going, what you both are doing, and what destination you both want to arrive at.
A woman with a clear vision will know her destination and thrive for it.


As a woman, when you find yourself questioning a man about his plans for both of you, it is a sign that he has no clear vision of where and what he wants to achieve. A real man has to lay out plans for both of you. He should be responsible for the ride. He should take you on a drive. He should show you what he wants and his plans for both of you. You deserve to know everything he is doing and how he plans to achieve them.


Any man who wakes up in the morning, goes to work, pays the bills, eats, and sleeps with you without a plan is out to destroy you.
As a woman of destiny, you ought to know exactly where you stand with your husband and how you fit into his life. He should know you are his wife and not just a woman to be used for his sexual satisfaction. He needs to know, the importance of communication in a relationship because you can’t work with what you don’t know.


So let him know you’re not to be left in the dark, just waiting for him to come home right into your hands.
[Ephesians 5:12 says he washes her with the word] good communication helps clear every uncertainty in a woman and gives her a clear vision of her husband’s plans for them. A man gets to know God’s has for him and be willing to share them with the love of his life.


A man must provide a safe environment for her wife. Her heart should be safe. She should be able to go to bed at night feeling safe.
God indeed protects us, but being with a man who keeps you safe is also part of living in peace. A woman of destiny should be able to go to bed at night, not having the urge to check her man’s phone.


When a man keeps her woman safe, the fire in her keeps burning, and she will be willing to walk through every circumstance with her man. She will fight and pray for her husband in every way. A woman of destiny has no strength for games but wants a stable man to connect genuinely with and walk with to bring out the best in each other.


As a woman of destiny, you have a great purpose in you, so you don’t have time to waste on someone who doesn’t have a clear vision of where they are going.
Here is the concluding part that might wake you up as a woman of destiny.
Know that the enemy uses relationship with us because he knows that is the only way to disorganize us from achieving our destiny. He knows how we love as women and how fast we can become broken when betrayed by the one we love. So the demon brings the same persons into our lives but only in a different body to confuse us.


The devil knows that only if he can get you dysfunctional in a relationship, then and only he will be able to keep you away from fulfilling your destiny on earth.
How does he do this? He steals your confidence, pride, self-esteem, peace, and joy. He makes you fight continually with your thoughts of who you are, and then he can finally destroy your destiny.


So dear woman, stand up for yourself and be bold to tell your man that what you need is not that much, just someone that is committed to you and your purpose. To love you so you can reciprocate the same to him.
Let him know you have a trauma to deal with and you are not ready to be pulled in by his trauma. Let him know where you stand and how you want to be treated by him.


I hope this post helps, and if it does, please feel free to share it with your friends and loved ones.


Remember, I’m your sister in Christ.


Love you.


Remain blessed.

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