If you do not love who you are, no one will!
Do you know that it’s the level of your confidence and the love you have for yourself, that will determine how others will treat and respect you?
If you design your life like a garden where anyone can dump their opinions, you’ve to be ready to accommodate their perception of you. But when you design your life like a precious stone, then people will also desire to have it. People will appreciate it and love to have it or add it to their collection.
This is to say that no matter how you try to please people they will always find fault in what you do. So the best way to move past people’s perceptions and opinions of you is to be bold and confident of yourself and whatever vision you have.
There were times in my life when I was always depending on people’s approval to function. I was taken advantage of until l was not able to make my own decisions. Today the story is different because I found the key to a happy life, and that is SELF-LOVE. I found my voice and now I respect people’s opinions and perceptions of me, but I don’t allow it to ruin my vision and what l love doing.
You can do the same all you need is to PRACTICE SELF-LOVE! The more you practice self-love affirmation, the greater your belief will grow. So to be able to grow your self worth you need to set aside time to recite that self-affirmation.
Here are some self-love affirmations I use for myself. I love reciting them in the early hours of the day. You are free to choose what time suits you.
I am worthy
I love who I am
I choose me
I respect my boundaries
I am bold and beautiful.
I am more than enough.
I have all it takes to succeed.
I am complete.
I am precious
God loves me.
I am confident.
I deserve to be happy
I love my uniqueness
I love me from inside out
I am surrounded by love and kindness.
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Remember I’m your sister in Christ.