How to Spice Up Your Marriage!

Written by Jane van Zundert

Hi, I am Jane, I am married and a mother of four. My mission in life is to inspire and motivate you, on how you can break free from fear, shame, and resentment and start creating a balanced life, so that you can begin to enjoy your total freedom and never get stuck again in life.

June 02, 2021

This post is for people who are ready to spice up their marriage. Marriages need lots of attention. This can be a new adventure, surprises, and love boosts. Every marriage needs some added spices to keep the love and happiness in the marriage. I hope you agree with this? 

  • Stay Attractive

Most people will give ignore their looks after getting married. They no longer take care of themselves and most especially after having kids. Here is a tip. Never lose your dressing. Dress for your spouse, it must not be expensive or be designer clothes. Get your hair done, put on a good laundry, and have a nice perfume on. Keep yourself clean all day. Never make the mistake of putting on granny clothes just because you have become a mother. You can still find so attractive and decent clothes in the shop.

  • Say Yes

It is great to say yes when your spouse comes up with a plan. It might not be okay with the timing, but you can always find a way to fit in. Because this will make the other spouse feel important. If the timing is not ok, find a pleasurable way to relate it to your spouse.

  • Learn To Complement

Shower your spouse with compliments, as this will spice up your marriage. Don’t be nagging rather find a way to appreciate what is good in your marriage and talk things over that needs change in your marriage, and this is where communication comes in.

  • Play 

Small touches throughout the day are never bad. Playing with your spouse and teasing them spices up your marriage. I love to look into my husband’s wallet and grab some money and sometimes the wallet is empty and that makes him mock me. It’s all fun and when I finally get to find some money in the wallet it is all mine. Sitting down after a meal and listening to the news together and touching him at the same time works perfectly in my marriage. 

  • Date 

Date your spouse again and again. Never allow the flame of love to die down in your marriage. Find time to do things together. It must not be expensive. You plan for a date maybe with a cup of tea or coffee. It can also be to the park or movie. 

  • Hold On The Foundation

Lots of people let go of the very foundation of their marriage. That thing that you used to do when you were dating. Those words and those jokes use to spice you both up why reframe from it. When your marriage is no longer great, take time to look back and reactivate that spark that was in you before you both get married. That is the original spice to hold onto.

  • Learn To Love Your Spouse

Learning to love your spouse despite their shortcomings, it will keep stress out of your marriage. This will help transform the other person when you are not constantly complaining about their bad behaviors. No marriage or relationship is perfect. What makes marriages last is the ability to condole each other and correct each other with love.

Marriage is great, and when you learn to spice it up instead of planning for separation because of the shortcomings, your children and your generation will have plenty of lessons to learn from.

Please feel free to share this post with your friends and loved ones.

Remember, I’m your sister in Christ.

Love you.

Remain blessed.

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  1. Jennifer osaghae

    Wow I love this infact many women need to read this, God bless you ma and may He continue to strengthen you in Jesus name 🙏


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