How To Move Past Haters!

Written by Jane van Zundert

Hi, I am Jane, I am married and a mother of four. My mission in life is to inspire and motivate you, on how you can break free from fear, shame, and resentment and start creating a balanced life, so that you can begin to enjoy your total freedom and never get stuck again in life.

April 26, 2021

Have you stopped living just because some people don’t love you? There will always be haters, those that just feel to intimidate you and those that want to see you fail. Never allow the feedbacks of others to destroy your peace and joy. Anyone that wants to succeed, must also be ready to stay motivated despite criticism and failure and must stay away from people who discourage them.

Here Are Some Tips to Move Past Heaters

  • Know That Successful people Will Never Put Your Down

Those that are successful know what it takes to become one, so they will never put you down. They rather choose to encourage you to move past obstacles. They will show you love and kindness. They will help you with the means to push past that struggle in life. One good turns deserve another they say. 1 Thessalonians 5:11 says Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as you are doing.

  • Learn Not To React But Be Grateful

People will always be there that don’t like what you do or what you have become. It’s better not to react to haters rather choose to be grateful for them. Sometimes haters will push you to your place of success

You can use haters to promote yourself by not reacting to them rather be grateful for what you do. Because when you do big things or take on a new project, some people will hate it. The enemy never wants to see our progress. To be able to turn the hater’s reaction to the positive energy you need to understand that what you feed yourself with, will grow in you, but whatever you refused to give attention to will eventually die.

Don’t react to your haters. Stop feeding them because what they say is an unresolved issue in their lives. Know that hate, love, criticism, and praise are all acknowledgments. Meaning you are going higher in what you do and some people can not ignore the fact that you are progressing. Are you dealing with haters? Yes! then you are on the right track. Be grateful because they are your vehicle to your upliftment.

  • Pay Haters Back In Kindness

Forgiveness is the highest gift you can give to yourself because you forgiving your hater, is not helping them but you. Pay your haters back in kindness. Make a list of those that hate you, wish them well, speak positively about them and you will be surprised how much energy you save for yourself and what you do.

You might even go out of your way to help them irrespective of them being jealous of what you have become, they will look at you and become inspired. Christ forgave those that hung him and today we all live in that liberty. They did a lot of things to Christ but He was able to let go. Let go of haters and embrace your peace, joy, and sanity.

  • See To The Lesson In Your Hater

As we grow old in life, we become more sensitive to people’s reactions. Meaning we want to ask ourselves if it’s worth living on people’s perception of us. ” As Ann columnist will say, ”At age 20, we worry about what people think about us. At age 40, we don’t care what they think of us. At age 60, we discover, they haven’t been thinking about us at all.

Know that those that hate us, often do that to draw attention to themselves and can also be a cry for help. Be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger.

  • Don’t Give-Up

Never think of giving up, just because of your haters. Continue with what you love, hold your head high and turn haters’ reaction into positive energy. Continue with your desire and passion. Soon those haters will be left with no choice but to appreciate you for what you do. Sometimes it takes a little push to know who you are. Those that mock you today will be there to see you not give up irrespective of how hard they tried to stop you.

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Remember I’m your sister in Christ.

 Love you.

Remain blessed.

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