How To Get Past Hurts By Loved Ones!

Written by Jane van Zundert

Hi, I am Jane, I am married and a mother of four. My mission in life is to inspire and motivate you, on how you can break free from fear, shame, and resentment and start creating a balanced life, so that you can begin to enjoy your total freedom and never get stuck again in life.

May 03, 2021

A lot of people derived pleasure in hurting others. This can either be by their words, attitude, or even their actions. No matter how you try to please some people, their only intention is to keep on hurting you.

That is why it’s so important to always be on the look for ungrateful people. Stay observant, because sometimes we are angry that people hurt us, but it might just be a way or a sign that God is trying to teach you something. You must be careful not to hold on to people God is trying to remove from your life.

People that take pleasure in hurting others might also not realize the damage done and, that it might take years to fix the damage.

If you must get past hurt and disappointment in any aspect of your life, never bother to ask people why they hurt you when you are being nice to them. The question you should be asking yourself is, why did you allow them to keep on hurting you?

I have learned this the hard way. Those I always stand out for will either turn their back to betray me, or hurt me by their words and action. I decided to do a background check and found out that I was the person permitting them to keep on hurting me. So if you must get past that hurt from loved ones, there is a need for a background check. Look out for why they keep on hurting you even when you are being nice to them.

You must understand that the greatest lessons of life come from your hurt, failure, disappointment, humiliation, and shame. So, rather than focusing on the pain people caused you, take the lessons and turn them into positive energy to help you move past that hurt.

Those that keep on hurting you will soon find out that life must go on with or without them.
Forget those things that caused you pain, and let go of that person that always hurts you.

Never allow anyone to keep on hurting you just because you love them to the point you become depressed, rather let go of them irrespective of who they are.
– Jane van Zundert

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