8 Crucial Signs that your Man is Cheating on You

Written by Jane van Zundert

Hi, I am Jane, I am married and a mother of four. My mission in life is to inspire and motivate you, on how you can break free from fear, shame, and resentment and start creating a balanced life, so that you can begin to enjoy your total freedom and never get stuck again in life.

September 08, 2022

When it comes to relationships and marriage, cheating is a disease that needs urgent attention. Falling in love can be beautiful, but it also comes with a risk. It takes time to build trust, and it can be betrayed by someone we love and never expect to hurt us.

How do you know if your husband or boyfriend is cheating on you? 

Are you suspecting any foul play in your marriage or relationship?

Five crucial signs that your man is cheating

1. He is distracted

If your partner suddenly becomes so distracted and never at the moment with you. It’s a red flag that he is cheating. You both leave together, yet he hardly sees any changes around you and in the house. He becomes so absent-minded that you practically have to shout his name to get his attention.

2. He becomes easily irritated and annoyed

When all you do suddenly becomes irritating to him it’s a sign that he no longer finds you attractive and a sign that he is seeing someone. This sudden change can signify he is seeing someone or dealing with issues that he doesn’t want you to be aware of.

3. He suddenly has a changed routine

When your man is cheating he has a sudden change of routines. When you are observant you find out that he goes to work too early and comes back home way too late. He suddenly began to do overtime and sometimes never want to stay home on the weekends. He sneaks in late and pretends to be home early when he finds you asleep. He becomes an expert in lying.

4. He does everything to avoid conversation with you

When a man is cheating, he never cares to ask about your day. He tries to avoid direct contact with you. Your communication level with him drops. You might become the only one doing all the talking when he stares at you with absent-mindedness. He comes home too tired that you can’t have a real talk with him. He suddenly spends more time in the bathroom. He is constantly on his phone and never drops it on the table.

5. You both no longer have couple-time

He never bothers to ask you out. He works from Monday to Saturday and takes Sunday as a rest day. Even on that rest day, all he does is sleep. When he is awake, he grabs the tv remote flapping from one channel to the other. He no longer has time for you and the kids if any are involved. He distances himself from intimacy and pretends he is very tired.

6. He showers you with unexpected gifts

Every woman loves gifts. A cheating man will go to every length to spoil you with gifts, so you won’t suspect he is cheating on you. Sometimes he feels guilty for keeping his distance from you, so he comes home with gifts, and flowers that will blow your mind. He might even drop some cash in your account to close his track. Check your conscience to see what you feel. Like the old saying, your instinct never lies.

7. He suddenly has a new phone and a secret password 

When a man begins to cheat, he changes his password. Now with modern technology, he uses his fingerprint to lock and open his phone. Even when his password is not changed, he saves his mistress’s number with a man’s name or as a client or colleague from work. Be watchful for this sign because it is the most common sign of a cheating man.

8. He keeps late night

You woke up at night, and he is not in bed with you. He keeps late nights, He suddenly begins to spend more time in the living room, just texting and video calling his mistress. He hides his phone when you come downstairs to check on him and suddenly begins to act weird. It’s a red flag that he is seriously cheating on you, and you might want to dig deeper to find out what is going on.

In conclusion

No one wants to be with a cheating man because it hurts and takes away the trust you have in him. I will say it only takes the grace of God to overcome that pain. I pray that God gives you the grace to overcome the pain and heartache of a cheating man. 

Please feel free to share this post with your friends and loved ones.

Remember, I’m your sister in Christ. 

Love you. 

Remain blessed.

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