4 Mistakes, I Wish I Could Have Avoided In My Life

4 mistakes i wish i could have avoided in my life

Written by Jane van Zundert

Hi, I am Jane, I am married and a mother of four. My mission in life is to inspire and motivate you, on how you can break free from fear, shame, and resentment and start creating a balanced life, so that you can begin to enjoy your total freedom and never get stuck again in life.

April 14, 2020

In this blog l will lead you into some mistakes, I wished I could have avoided in my life. l am not regretting these mistakes, because it is part of my journey, because of those mistakes, l am who, l am today.

I am letting you, into my life mistakes, to help you in achieving your dream faster. Just keep on reading, maybe you will be able to learn, or take one or two things away from things I would have done differently.

1. Spirit of fear

One thing, I would have done differently, is getting rid of fear. I never know that greatness and fulfillment are available for all that call on the name of God. In the book of John 14:14. ” Jesus said ask anything in my name and you will have it.” Meaning l have been given everything under the sun to make use of.

Greatness and abundant life are for everyone not only for certain people. My own idea was that a certain career was met for people who are intelligent, smart or highly educated, so because of that l was so scared and afraid to embark on what I love and know was my dream.

l know better now, that l would have given me the permission sooner, to allow me into my breakthrough and successful life. So until l started believing in myself and begin to deal with the spirit of fear, I was really not able to work or access my destiny. I changed my mind-set by working on my personal development. My mistakes shaped me and my mindset.

2. Value the Relationships In Your Life

Time past, l have neglected a lot of relationships around my life. l made a lot of mistakes, I abandoned people who were really there for me, but thank God, l was able to correct some and somewhere gone. It took me, so many years, but one thing l keep on praying for to this day, is forgiveness from God, because most of them are dead and l could never make it up to them.

3. Ignoring my inner instinct

l was always ignoring my inner man’s voice, rather I choose, to listen to outsider. I was simply waiting for people to applaud me and tell me what, how and when to do it. My own life was messed up, because the people l thought was there for me, turned out to be, that they were busy manipulating me, and because of jealousy, l was been held down.

That kept me in the same spot for a very long time because I was having the spirit of fear, l was stucked and locked up in my own small world.

4. Create Your Plans And Work It Out Step By Step

I had all the ideas and plans. I dreamt about it, but too scared to follow it up or even start. I was so scared because the money involved was too much and l was scared of meeting the right people. I know now, that, l can break my dreams down in detail.

If you know that your dream will amount to investing fifty thousand euros in your business or whatever carrier you want to build, start by breaking them down in bits and as time goes on, you will continue to invest in it. Be brave to start small. Rome was not built in a day.

5. Marriage

Sometimes God speaks, but we are too busy to hear from Him. In the aspect of marriage, If only, I had listened to God. I would have been settled long before now. But you know what? God has a reason for everything, so l learned from my past mistakes, I was abounded with four children to take care of.

I was manipulated to leave my country to come to Europe, where l was involved in different relationships, the moment I discovered myself, God gave a nice and humble man as a husband to me. I am happily married now and, I am on a life journey, with God on myside l will never make such mister again. I have learn from my past mistakes.

I hope l have succeeded in adding value to your life, through my life experiences and mistakes and also helped to shift your mind-set.

I will be honored to read your comment on this topic. Share with me below, what are the things you will love to do right, now that you still have time.

I love you all with the love of Christ.

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