When you live your life, based on people’s opinions, you will certainly suffer rejection and have low self-esteem. I was also a victim of rejection because l based my whole life on fear of been rejected and l end up investing in people to like and love me. When I decided to be grateful to those rejections and decided to learn from my mistake, my eyes were open and l saw lots of miracles that came out of those series of rejection.

1. Accept Rejection As A Lesson

Believe in your heart that God is taking you through the learning process. When you learn, you will be more conscious of falling into the same mistake again. Take all the lessons that come from it.

2. Stop The Pretense.

Pretending will not get you anywhere. Just be yourself stand for the truth you are unique the way God created you. I tried to live for everyone. I wanted everyone to love, but in the end, l get hurt because l was never good enough for those people. The moment l stop all the game of pretense. My miracle came out. l got married despite been rejected multiple times.

3. Never Think About Rejection as Your problem

It’s not all about you. When people reject you, it is not because you are bad, but your destiny is too bright for them, and your light too shining, That, will make them do everything in their power to stop everything that will make you smile. It can be in that marriage, church, among your friends even your family. The moment you realized that that rejection is out to promote you. You will get your miracle.

4. Avoid the voice of critic

When you are rejected, there is every possibility that you will begin to hear the voice of the critic. This voice will begin to whisper to you, that you are not good enough, not beautiful enough to get married, not smart enough to get that job or contract. Sometimes the voice will tell you, that because anyone is not married or successful in your family that you will also not make it. These are the lies of the devil to keep you in perpetual bondage.

When you know all the above steps and know how to deal with them. Then you will begin to see light and opportunities in from of you. It is not all rejection that is evil. Some are out there to teach you a lesson and shift you into your miracle.

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