To be rejected, means, to be pushed away from friends, group, gathering, marriage, a place of work, etc. When this happens, it causes emotional pain. Rejection, can be experienced on a large and small scale. If we take a look at rejection critically, it happens almost every day in our lives. Most at times we refused to see it.

But there is a good thing about rejection, is not all rejection comes from the devil, it might just be God telling you to live a particular place so that you will not be destroyed.

Most people, handle rejection in a hard way and thereby forgetting to see the reality, of why, they were been rejected. The Holy Spirit speaks to us, but most times we are so blind that we believe all lies, thereby, promising ourselves to remain in a place, even when God is telling us to move out.

Be very careful of the place you go to, who you are involved with, the people you are willing to die for might just be the very ones standing against you. You might just be their tool, and only, important, when they can benefit from you. The moment, they see that you are becoming wiser and more outspoken, they will not have a choice than to drop you. You become their enemy.

Don’t be weary, God has a better plan for you. He has prepared a better place for, so stop crying over a rotten egg, instead celebrate God for saving your life.

There Are Side Effects Of Rejection

1. Trauma

When someone is experiencing a long term rejection, it can have psychological effects and consequences. A woman that has been rejected, so many times in a relationship, can be scared to start or accept any new relationship.

In life, God has promised, that He is our help, in times of weakness. Keep the faith, don’t give up because someone rejected you. God is working out a perfect man for you.

In the book of John 1:45-46 Philip found Nathanael and said to him, “We have found him of whom Moses in the Law and also the prophets wrote, Jesus of Nazareth, the son of Joseph. ” Nathanael said to him, “Can anything good come out of Nazareth? Philip said to him, Come and see”

People might give up on you, it will be painful, but God is working out your miracle, and those people that reject you will come and celebrate you.

2. Rejection Can Lead To Depression

Depression, can be trace to rejection. Most people that have been rejected, end up being depressed. When people are rejected, it sends a signal to their brain that they are not loved and not wanted. So many times they turn to food, [eating disorder], or thinking of harming themselves. They can also end up being a bully. Seek help, knowing that you are not alone in those situations. Never allow yourself to be in the mood until you can’t function again in your daily activity.

3. Rejection Can Also Lead To Anxiety And Stress Disorder

When someone is rejected or experiencing rejection, that individual is bond to experienced anxiety and stress. The individual, will want to go the extra mile to please everyone. Thinking that, will give her a sense of belonging. That can lead to stress and anxiety. I know it is very easy to be stressed out when been rejected. But please inside of crying, learn from that rejection.

4. Abuse

Rejection, has been tied to abuse in most relationships and marriages. People that have gone through rejection time and time again, especially in their childhood, are probably going to be abusive in their relationship. They must have developed a strategy to defend and protect themselves from the outside world.

Never give up on yourself. God will protect and vindicates you from all humiliation. Stay firm in Christ. He is the hope of all glory.

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Love you all.

Remain blessed.