Why It’s Good To Move On After A Disappointment!

Written by Jane van Zundert

Hi, I am Jane, I am married and a mother of four. My mission in life is to inspire and motivate you, on how you can break free from fear, shame, and resentment and start creating a balanced life, so that you can begin to enjoy your total freedom and never get stuck again in life.

April 09, 2021


It is very important to learn to move on after a disappointment. No matter the situation, holding onto the past hurts will close the new door of opportunity for you. Have you be humiliated, abandoned, openly disgraced, and even left with pregnancy? Then keep on reading because this post is for you.

In life, obstacles and circumstances will arise, but the way you receive and handle them matters. Lots of people have been taken unaware, just because they forgot to safe guide their hearts. They choose to believe every lie that comes out of the mouth of some unreasonable men. Most women are so easily manipulated by men who claim they love them.

Some men come with a sugar-coated word, they will promise heaven and earth just to get a glimpse of that woman. When some men have gotten what they want, they dump the woman and move on to look for another victim. Some women have been abandoned with pregnancies or even abandoned when the child is born.

This is my advice to women, who are hurting from disappointment fear, and shame. Yes! it is easier said than done, but the truth is to learn to move on! Staying in that place of hurt will never bring you fulfillment, but forgiving and letting go of whatever was done to you is the way forward and healing from that emotional torture.

Know that whenever you forgive and let go, it is not helping those that hurt you, rather you are helping yourself. Letting go of every wrong done to you will open a new door of opportunity for you.

“A woman becomes braver when she allows herself to learn from her mistakes.”
Jane van Zundert


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