No one can do without having a friend. But it becomes a problem when you find yourself among negative and fake friends. Lots of people have missed out on life opportunities just because they find themselves in the wrong circle of friends. As there is a bad friend, there is equally a good one. Below are some points on how to spot a negative friend in your life.
1. Energy Drainer
Initially one should feel good when your friend comes around for a visit. But when it becomes otherwise there is a problem. Any friendship that lives you drained out is a toxic relationship and must be avoided. Friends should give each other support and not living the other drained out after a conversation. Sometimes there are moments you both will cry and share hurts, that should not leave your stressed out. A good friendship will keep you warm even if there is stress.
2. They Never Visit You
These are kinds of friends, they never want to visit you or hang around you. They feel your home or company is never better than there own house. They are the type that will always cancel any appointment at the last minute and some times they don’t even call to inform you that they are not coming. This kind of relationship shows that you are never a priority in their lives.
3. You Don’t Share The Same Core And Value
In every friendship, when your values are far different from each other, there is every possibility that you can never support or encourage each other. It is time to stay out of such a friendship.
4. They Are Always Competing
Any friend that is always in competition with what you do is not a true friend. Most at times fake friends are easy to spot because they are never satisfied. They always want the best than you. For example, when you buy a shoe of hundred euros they will go for two hundred to show themself off.
5. They Always Look down On You
These kinds of friends feel they are the best. You are never given the chance to express yourself. They start and end a conversation. Each time you need to speak, they cut you out and continue with their conversation. These kinds of friends will always put you down when other people are around.
Action Point
Any friendship that will not allow you to be yourself should never be entertained.
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