Ways To Spot Negative Friends In Your Life Part One

"Ways To Spot Negative Friends In Your Life Part One"

Written by Jane van Zundert

Hi, I am Jane, I am married and a mother of four. My mission in life is to inspire and motivate you, on how you can break free from fear, shame, and resentment and start creating a balanced life, so that you can begin to enjoy your total freedom and never get stuck again in life.

June 30, 2020

We all need a friend in our life. But it’s better if we have the positive ones in our lives. When you choose your friends it will enable you to choose those that are like-minded like you. But when it becomes otherwise, then there is a problem.

It’s very hard to spot a toxic friend, but when you make it a priority to choose your friends, it will become lots easier to settle for the good ones. Below are 3 ways to spot a negative friend in your life.

1. Friend That Secretly Hurts You

These are kind of friends, who cheer you on. There face shows emotional pains when you get hurt or in pain. But initially, they hate you and wish you remain in that hurt or pain. Be very careful because they have a calculative plan. If the chance is given to them, they will show their true colors. This kind of friend will never come to tell you your mistakes, rather they go behind you to gossip with outsiders or other friends. You will get to hear it from other people what you’ve done wrong.

2. Only Me Kind Of Friend

This is the one that always feels he is too big to help out. Their only agenda is me! me!! me!!!. They come around when they need you and disappear when you need them.

3. The Dream Killer

No matter what you do, this kind of friend will never support you. Tell them about a new job, there must be something wrong with that job. You do all in your power to show them your worth, they are secretly angry. Such a friend is so jealous of your progress and will secretly gossip about you. You can never be better than them rather anything they do they want you to support them.

In Conclusion

Any friend that always wants to control and tell you how to live your life rather than accepting your opinion and choice in life is a red flag that needs to be taken seriously. Say goodbye to that friend before they ruin your life.

What kind of friend do you hang out with?

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Remember l am your sister in Christ.

Love you all .

Remain Blessed.

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