The Secret Men Don’t Want Women to Know!

Written by Jane van Zundert

Hi, I am Jane, I am married and a mother of four. My mission in life is to inspire and motivate you, on how you can break free from fear, shame, and resentment and start creating a balanced life, so that you can begin to enjoy your total freedom and never get stuck again in life.

July 26, 2022


Men don’t want women to find out about their weaknesses. When a man becomes insecure because a woman is not dependent on him, that is insecurity and a loss of masculinity. A man becomes threatened when a woman is confident and productive. When a woman can provide for herself and her family, men become insecure and try to take her self-esteem away.


To all women out there, there is nothing wrong with being independent. It is your power. Hold on tight to it. When you get yourself prepared, no man will look down on you. It means self-love. It is called self-complete. Eventually, when a man walks into your life. He will find you bold, confident, determined successful, and competent. Keep it and cherish your self-dependent girl.

“Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.” Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
 but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. Honor her for all that her hands have done,
 and let her works bring her praise at the city gate. ( Proverbs 31:29-31)


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Remember, I’m your sister in Christ.


Love you


Remain blessed.

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