How To Gain Confidence In Speaking

Written by Jane van Zundert

Hi, I am Jane, I am married and a mother of four. My mission in life is to inspire and motivate you, on how you can break free from fear, shame, and resentment and start creating a balanced life, so that you can begin to enjoy your total freedom and never get stuck again in life.

July 30, 2020

Having the confidence to speak out is a big problem for most people. It can either be in the workplace, conferences, church gathering or even speaking on camera. You can hide from the public or too shy to face the crowd or even worse to face the camera when no one else is watching.

This whole fear starts, with you doubting yourself, by thinking of how people will react to your speaking but there are ways to get out of that self-limiting belief by letting boldness and confidence take over your fear and shyness no one is 100% perfect each and everyone is in a learning process through learning you will scale gradually into your perfect being.

Gain Your Confidence In speaking With These few steps

1. Take One Step At A time

Taking one step at a time will draw you closer to gaining confidence in speaking. If speaking to an audience scares you learn to speak to a small group like making a speech at dinner with your family, it can also be a short remark on your friend’s wedding. Learn to start small and be bold to ask for feedback.

2. Choose The Topic You Know

When you choose a topic you know well you will speak with confidence never made the mistake of choosing a complicated topic know your audience know what they want, it is what you know about you are also confident to speak about.

3. Make A Note On The Topic

Whatever topic you are to speak on, making note and pointing down the pinpoints will enable you to take a glance at the points and refresh your memory with what next to say, It is okay to read out your points, it gives your audience a clearer picture of what you are speaking on. In most cases, the audience gets a clearer picture and meaning of your topic by you reading out your own thought concerning that topic.

4. Gradually Learn To Develop Your skill

When you gradually learn to develop your skills, based on lower-risk environments, it will boost your confidence, look for those that can mentor and guide you learning they say makes perfect. Knowing that you can depend on others to develop your speaking will go a long way to help you be bold to ask for help, and get feedback.

5. Take Action

When you are bold to take action it is the number one step, in gaining confidence in speaking, lots of people are waiting for the perfect time to speak, they want to build their confidence without taking any action. The more you speak, the better you will become, look for simple topics, and get running.

Please feel free to drop your comment on how this post has helped you.

Remember i am your sister in Christ.

Love you all.

Remain blessed.

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