Avoid Living In Regret

Written by Jane van Zundert

Hi, I am Jane, I am married and a mother of four. My mission in life is to inspire and motivate you, on how you can break free from fear, shame, and resentment and start creating a balanced life, so that you can begin to enjoy your total freedom and never get stuck again in life.

December 04, 2019

Are you living in regrets and wondering why things are not working out for you. There a lot of things we do in our subconsciousness, that we don’t take into consideration that ends up affecting our success in life.

Life is not to be lived in regrets, there is more to life than that. When we live in the past there is every possibility that we will shut ourselves, out of the opportunity set before us. Many a time a lot of people have stopped living there lives because of what happened to them in the past.

Living in regrets can also be transformed into hatred. And because you are so angry with yourself, and accusing yourself that you are the cause of your misfortune, that will lead you into self-hatred that can lead to depression.

Never allow what happened in your past determine how to live in your present, so that you will not ruin your future.

I Was Also Caught Up In Regret Until I Discovered Myself.

Here is my personal story. I was in so many relationships that turned out to be unhealthy, I decided to stop leaving and just existing. I gave up my joy, my hobby, my carrier and even stop taking care of myself.

I decided to go into a job that I fully know, will take me away from home just being around people and making money. I hid under the shadow of my job and forgot totally that I am supposed to be hiding under the shadow of the almighty God.

I leave home as early as 5.am and coming back home, I was already exhausted to the extent of not having the energy to take care of my kids and husband.

I totally allowed everything I went through control me, not until I discover something that blew my mind. I came across a video online and on listening to that video, I felt the person was talking to me directly. I resonated with him. I began to work on my mindset and personal development. That is how I became who l am today.

What are your challenges? What are your fears? What is that thing that has happened in your life that seems to be weighing you down and thereby not fulling your goals?

Get out of that tight corner, and begin to live the life that has been designed for you.


Major Tips In Avoiding Regrets

  • Never hang on your past.
  • Try as much as possible to be clear on what your goals are and focused on achieving them.
  • Find out what is really getting you afraid and try to avoid them.
  • Begin to love yourself and invest in yourself by dealing with your mindset and work on your personal self-development.
  • Begin to visualized and meditates on how you want your future to look like.
  • Make out time to love people and take out time to really understand how to be successful in your current state.

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