Let Go Of These 4 Sets Of Friends If You Must See Result In 2021!

Written by Jane van Zundert

Hi, I am Jane, I am married and a mother of four. My mission in life is to inspire and motivate you, on how you can break free from fear, shame, and resentment and start creating a balanced life, so that you can begin to enjoy your total freedom and never get stuck again in life.

December 05, 2020

Anyone who wants to succeed in life must first take inventory of what they want and how they want to achieve it and, walking away from people who are not in support of what you do is the right place to start. Do you want to see result in 2021? Here are four types of friends you must avoid, but before we go into listing them, here is the definition of a true friend, the one that you will like to have in your life in 2021.

The definition of a true friend is someone who has your back, no matter what. They watch out for you and ensure you are not in danger. They will never purposely lead you into making decisions that aren’t good for you. A true friend will always have your best interest at heart.

Four types Of Friends You Must Avoid 

1. Sadist [Mood Killers]

Sadists are mood killers, you can never have a good conversation with them. They always find a way to make negative comments on anything you do. Your home, love life, the way you dress. They are never happy to see you smile, but the dangerous part is they pretend to be a good friend, but what they want is to see you fail. They always have a depressing kind of comment. They change with the weather.

2.The Competing kind Of Friend

This kind of friend is the one who wants to do everything you do. If you buy a new car, they will go for it. If you organized a party, they do the same when you buy new shoes they will force themselves to go for a more expensive one. They always want to be at the top. When you take a close look at such a friend, you will discover that they lack self-esteem. So the only way they think is to always stay high in the competition. Run for such friends because someday it will lead to jealousy and, it becomes hatred, then the worst can happen. 

3. Betrayers

These are the kind of friends who backstab you, they are the types that secretly destroy you and pretend to be very good to you. 

They are very good at cheering you up, but behind you, they hate everything you do with passion. It is sad, but these kinds of people are mostly found among the false preachers who pretend to be helping you in prayers, whereas they are the ones secretly killing you so that you will always remain under them. Your intuition always knows.

4. The frenemy,

Hmm, when you see this kind of friend run for your life. These are friends who want bad things to happen to you just because you are fulfilling your purpose. These are friends that know you too well. This kind can even go far to make sure you never succeed in life. Again these are commonly found among false teachers because if they release you to fulfill your purpose, they will no longer have a grip over you so, they give you false prophecy to keep you in perpetual bondage. Run for your life if you have such people in your life.

Do you want to see the result you desire in 2021? Then avoid these kind of friends? And pray for a true friend. There are still good ones out there when you have just one, consider yourself lucky. 

The definition of a true friend is someone who has your back, no matter what. They watch out for you and ensure you are not in danger. They will never purposely lead you into making decisions that aren’t good for you. A true friend will always have your best interest at heart.

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Remember I’m your sister in Christ.

Love you

Remain blessed.

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