Learn Not To Waste Your Time On Pain!

Written by Jane van Zundert

Hi, I am Jane, I am married and a mother of four. My mission in life is to inspire and motivate you, on how you can break free from fear, shame, and resentment and start creating a balanced life, so that you can begin to enjoy your total freedom and never get stuck again in life.

February 11, 2021

Inevitable things do happen to us in life that leaves us with pain and hurt. Life is not enjoyable when we spent all our lives in pain and hurt. The fact that we all have limited time on earth to live should boost us never to hang on in pain rather learn to move on. The time we spend on acting to be hurt can not be productive and, nothing meaningful can be achieved. Sometimes we are so hurt that we can not recover from hurt but instead of wasting that time here is what you should know.


Every one of us goes through disappointments, discouragements, all manner of pains, but we must learn and accept that pain is part of life. We ought to learn not to be easily discouraged when things happen in our lives but learn to accept and move on. We should be careful never to put a question mark in the place where God puts a full stop.


When you go through rejection humiliation or the death of a loved one, yes it hurts, but understand that it is never the end of life. So learn to focus and see through the eyes of understanding that things will fall in pleasant places for you when you refused to live in that pain. When situations of life hit you, it might be confusing but learn to rely on God because God never makes mistakes.


God is working out a better plan for you, so trust the process. There will always be trials in the word, but God promised us that He will never allow us to be consumed by it. Pain might change us and might leave us to be a different person but, when we learn to rely on God, He will always be our help in times of trouble. Trust God and, everything will begin to make sense.

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“The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” Psalm 34:18

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