Not Everyone Should Be Your Friend If You Must Excel!

Written by Jane van Zundert

Hi, I am Jane, I am married and a mother of four. My mission in life is to inspire and motivate you, on how you can break free from fear, shame, and resentment and start creating a balanced life, so that you can begin to enjoy your total freedom and never get stuck again in life.

January 13, 2021

Do you know that most people have remained in the same spot because they choose to give everyone access to their lives? If you must excel in life, don’t give everyone access to your life. There is a level you must attain to be able to see results. Give full access to the things of God, learn to have faith in Christ finished work on the cross of Calvery.


Most people have ruined their lives over and over again because of how they give access to people. They have no secrets and believe that everyone is their friend. Here is the truth, when you give access to everyone you come across, it will enable them to sometimes impose their thoughts on you and begin to manipulate your life.

You will begin to live your life based on their perception of you. Learn to guide the doorway to your heart. Instead of giving access to everyone, like those, that are even jealous of your achievements, you can rather open your heart to Christ, because in Him we are made perfect.


When God has spoken to you concerning certain associations, cut away from them. God speaks to everyone, but when He speaks and, you refused to listen and take action, He will not speak again.


Be smart, confused people with your silence. Let your success speak out, and know you don’t owe anyone an apology for being quiet.


Please feel free to share this post with your friends and loved ones.


Remember I’m your sister in Christ.

Love you.


Remain blessed.

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